Hi, I'm Jamyria.
I got ordained because I kept watching couples get talked out of the wedding they actually wanted: told it was too much, too weird, or not traditional enough. I think the ceremony should serve the couple, not the other way around.
Before this, I spent years running communities and handling the kind of details most people never see, which turned out to be exactly the skill set a good officiant needs. I show up prepared, I listen first, and I write ceremonies that sound like you, not like a template.